Were there times you really wanted to say something or do something yet you didn’t because you were worried about what others thought? I believe we all have this feeling at times and when you feel it affecting your self-esteem, your deservedness, and productivity then it’s time to take a closer look at what’s causing it and how to overcome it.
Let me use myself as an example and start by saying I lived with conditional love most of my life. I was conditioned to please people and say what they wanted me to say and because the consequences were so uncomfortable I learned to comply. Besides, I was rewarded and it felt good (I thought) when I agreed. Yet the fact is I felt a false sense of “good” and all it really did was squash my true feelings and thoughts which ultimately made me feel unworthy. My businesses and relationships were affected because I didn’t believe in myself, and each day took a toll on my true self and how I acted. It seemed I was always doing more for others than I was for myself.
This underlying feeling of unworthiness followed me throughout my life and it wasn’t until I started to really strengthen myself from the inside out that my outlook, confidence, and belief changed so I could become my authentic self. I started saying what I wanted and trusting it… knowing it was my true feeling and so it was good enough. I am good enough and matter and what a freeing notion this was to finally and truly comprehend. My anxiety went away, I was compassionate with myself, and my stress levels diminished to where I was finding peace and ease every single day.
If this sounds good, I can help you too with proven tools I’ve learned and developed and used with so many of my clients getting similar benefits and results. Check out my website for my program, The Confidence Ignited Method, my Facebook page Never Settle Life Coaching and my FB group Women Building Confidence here: https://www.facebook.com/groups/235134602195786. Embrace a life you love and never settle!
